Mom to Elijah Xavier Elmore
October 7th, 2010 – December 14th, 2010
My name is Stacy, I lost my son Eli to SIDS December 14, 2010 and I had a miscarriage 7 years ago when I was 4 weeks along. After my miscarriage, I was so distraught and I immediately kept trying to get pregnant again, it became my number 1 goal in life.
Well in 2007 I was diagnosed with PCOS and had polyps removed from my uterus, but even after the surgery I kept having problems. In 2009 I finally went and got a 2nd opinion, she confirmed the PCOS and put me on medication and said the only way to get pregnant was to lose weight but there was still only a low chance I would ever have a child.
Well I got on a diet program and hired a personal trainer and lost 98 lbs in 9 months, 3 months later I found out I was pregnant, Elijah Xavier Elmore was born Oct 7, 2010, I was so overjoyed, I finally had my precious baby. Then on Dec 14, he went to sleep in my arms and never woke up, I was devastated.
I am held so much blame for him passing away, I worked so hard to have him, then I didnt do a good enough job of protecting him. Both losses hurt me, but losing Eli is the worst because he was a full term and I had 9 weeks with him.
Stacy can be contacted at StacyLynn1977@gmail.com