We were leaving the room and I kissed Tred on the forehead and said I love you as we walked out of the room. The nurse, that had taken care of me while I was in labor and when I delivered Tred, was starting her shift for the day and asked if she could give me a hug on our way out. She is a wonderful lady and was so good to us knowing what was going to happen.
Tred’s funeral was on June 9th at 3:00. We said our final goodbyes before he was laid to rest.
Being pregnant with Talya came as a big surprise to us. We found out we were pregnant in August. We had just lost our precious Tred to stillbirth and we weren’t trying to get pregnant but someone else has other plans. I didn’t know I was pregnant as I had been bleeding off and on for a few months. Apparently I had a low lying placenta which was causing the bleeding and I took it as AF. Besides the bleeding everything was fine except our fear. We had so many fears because of losing Tred. We waited to tell people as long as we could and finally told everyone I was pregnant which was right after I hit 21 weeks. I was diagnosed at my first appointment as having GBS. I remember calling my sister to ask her what that was since I didn’t get any info from my dr.s except that I would need antibiotics when I went into labor.